my PRECIOUS life!!

friday nite

2011-01-28T12:06:00.002-05:00

it is a friday nite today and there are a lot of things i want to share with you guys.

lately, i've been reading several blogs and i remembered mine. How ugly it is and how boring it is.
I am not a writer but i love to share my experiences and my day to everybody through blog or anything.

anyway, im working in a quite big company in Indonesia which operates in banking industry. I know, i know, long time ago, I always say that people go to banking industry because they dont have choice. but, its true. i dont have choice. this is the only one i have! lol
but, the good news is, im quitting soon! i feel that im not quite the person to work in banking industry even though i love the cubicle, the people, the kost, the environment, the food that i got for free everytime we have an event, and so on. at the end, i would love to do something i love.

im not there yet. its not even half of the road. But, im going there. i believe so. hahaha

moreover, lately, im thinking about my life. i still young, i still have a lot of things i want to do, but, i dont know where to start.
like, i want to study chinese language. i want to be able to speak chinese. i want to learn how to cook! i want to learn how to do some professionals make up and so on. but, of course i cant get all of them. So, here is my BIG plan: after i quit the job, i will def help my dad to make some money. prolly find the new business that i also can handle for myself. while doing that, i would love to take some cooking classes or some make up classes. finally, when i have enough money, i will def go to china and learn chinese! hopefully get some new idea to get a new business or maybe just work there for a while. hehehe

oh yah!! btw, BRUNO MARS is coming to Indonesia. Hopefully i will get the tickets!! i m not really a big fan oh him. But, after listening to some of his songs, i started to like him. I think he is a sweet and romantic guyy,, the one who always there for his girl ,, awwwww :)

ok darl, its late now and im gonna sleep soon. i know this blog is boring. i will post some pics maybe tomorrow abt my trip to HK last dec!! lol

ttyl!

love is so confusing.

2010-07-18T14:50:00.002-04:00

udah berapa lama yah gw gag update my blog.
anyway, im in indonesia now. ive been here for abt 2 weeks. already gave up my life in the states.now, i am helping my parents in the store. i will try to find a job maybe after "lebaran."

anyway, i just realized something after my friend told me her story abt her and her boyfriend.
i believe that women are stupid. i know that i am also a woman. so, i am stupid too. women are stupid with love.
i dont know why women will be able to sacrifice all of the things that she has for a man.
love is blind. its true. espc for a woman.

i dont know why. deep inside my heart, i do really want to educate all the women in the world,maybe i can start with my friends first. gw cuman gag percaya aja kok cewe gampang banget yah jatuh cinta. dan sekali nya jatuh cinta. kenapa sih kita harus fall so deep and kita ga bisa bangkit dari situ gitu. why?

we can do anything for a man. muali dari bangun pagi, siapin makanan, desperate untuk di sms, telp or ketemuan..pengennya slalu bareng. slalu nagih janji ke si cowo supaya ga selingkuh. etc.

nothing last forever gitu. i seriously dont know kenapa cewe bisa kek gt. padahal belom tentu tuh cowo tuh 100% ama kita. kita bisa liat gitu dari perbandingan cewe and cowo di dunia, its like 1:3. bayangin aja satu cowo bisa lirik2 ce laen at least 3x.
sedangkan cewe itu kekurangan cowo. jadi skali dapet, langsung maonya itu doank. bego kan yahh,,

jadi gimana yah carnaya supaya cewe itu ga trlalu bego? gw aja sendiri bingung.

love is so confusing.

what i want in my life

2010-05-04T03:15:00.002-04:00

i tried to google "what i want in my life" and yes, there is a hit. i checked one of the blog and on that blog, she or he wrote a lot of things she or he wants to do in her or his life. pretty amazing. even the little things.

so, in this blog, i would like to write what i want to do in this life. maybe every day i will keep adding it and try to do it one by one. Hopefully.

ok, what i want to do in my life:
1. get out of this bedroom as often as i can
2. work out and be thin again
3. get a job that i love doing it.
4. make a macaron that i love
5. make a peace with everybody especially myself
6. smile more
7. get all the list of stuff that i want to sell
8. take a lot of pics
9.sleep earlier, 12pm at the latest and wake up early, 9am
10. etc

to be continued

bad mood!!

2010-05-01T18:26:00.002-04:00

today is gloomy. i hate it. and im in a very bda mood. there are a lot of things going on recently. and i hate it. i know it is wasting my energy and i dont want that. but, i cant help it. i want to go back home as soon as possible. i wish i can.

i need to go out. i need to go out from this place. i dont know how but i need too. seriously.

i know it

2010-04-30T05:04:00.001-04:00

i know i know i know!!
it takes me a while, but i get it,, i know what i want right now. I think i deserve it. buT, i havent gave the best off me yet. So, from tmrrow I will give the best off me!! seriously,, and when I get it, I will think that it is worth it :D

oh, thanks for the sleepless night and the best friends around me :)

The Printed Dress!

2010-04-29T02:04:00.008-04:00

its so cold today!! actually, yesterday was colder,, but still,, i dont like cold weather,, the wind and rain,, please dont make me hate you oh weather!!

anyhow, right now, im sitting at my bed thinking about my printed dress. I bought this dress 2 years ago for my 21st bday dinner. That dress is cute, but, somehow, it is kind of hard for me to wear it. Because it is a printed dress, I cannot add anything on it, I mean like accessories or jewelry. This dress was with me the night I turned legally 21 and the night I legally drunk!! There is a history value between me and this dress. Awwww

Oh well, next week is my best friend's bday dinner. Since, I dont want to buy another dress, Im thinking to wear that dress again. But, seriously, I need to do something with my hair, my make up, or I need to add some accessories . IF not, it is going to be a boring dress. I checked it online, but, most of the people who wear printed dresses, they are not wearing any accessories.

Look at this example:

ok then, its kind of late right now,, let me know what you think!!

ciao!!

in the middle of the night

2010-04-02T02:38:00.005-04:00

its been a week after i graduated from Ohio State University. but i still DO NOT HAVE A JOB!!
maybe you think it is too early to freak out, but, i am FREAKING OUT!! Literally,, OMG!!
i got rejected more than 5 times, especially with my favorite company P&G. Jeez, they really do not want international people who need a sponsor to wrok in US!! it is not fair!! you guys clearly stated that you are the diversity company, equal employment!! i am angry with you guys and myself!! hahaha,, so freak,,

anyway, i went to west coast the day after i graduated! it was so fun!! should be more fun if my roomie and her bf were coming along. but, they chose not to come after all,,
the scenery were beautiful, the city was so busy and i love it!! i wanna MOVE!! i am kind of bored to live here,, nothing here :(

oh well, my plan for the next step is looking for more job.. i prob already submitted more than 20 applications!! oh, well, it is not enough,, i need to send hundreds of applications!! Please HIRE ME!!
I SERIOUSLY NEED A JOB!! :D

let me show you guys some of the pictures from the vacation :)

xoxo

just as usual

2010-03-01T22:45:00.005-05:00

just as usual, i forget about this blog,,
but sometimes, i remembered it and suddenly so want to write on it,,
hahaha,,

anyway,, i am almost graduate!! yay!!
3 more weeks and i am an alumni!!
not really excited coz i dont have a job yett,, please hire me people!!

but, i am also excited coz i dont need to worry abt homeworks and examss!! :))

oh well,,
to write a blog is not my passion, but, i do love to talkk,,
but then, there are not many people around to listen to my story,,
so,blogging is one of the source to let you know people that I would love to have some more friends to talk to!! :D

oh yeah, i checked my friend's blog couple days ago.. she is talking about fashion,,
if you want to know my other passion besides talking, it is fashion baby!!
not really an expert, but, i do love fashionn!!
how you can mix and match colors, accessories, bags, shoes!!
omg,, not really have a money to buy all the stuff is a big problem for me,,
but, it does not prevent from talking about it!! hahhaa

oh well,,
here you go some of the picture or some of the stuff i would love to have!! *admiring them just enough for me!! * :D

Dont you think they are cute?? They also have purple in color, and it is so cute!! i know the price is so expensive, i will not buy it until i have a job!! no worry., hahaha

Next is:

aaawww,, she is so cute!! Mischa Barton!! omg, i wish, my hair is as long as her's rite now.. i love to wear the same headband!! i have several headbands, i love themm,, but, my hair is kind of short,, so, there are not many chances to wear them.. thats too badd,,, :(

what else, im so sleepy rite now,, i will talk more later on!! ok guys!!

cya

nitee

it has been a long time people!! :D

2009-11-17T01:42:00.004-05:00

hey hey you you!!

it has been 6 months that i havent opened this blog,, suddenly today i just remembered about it and take a look of it,,
i miss my blogg!!
where i can post all sort of things that happened in my life!! (of course not all!! secret things need to be in the secret place!! :D)

anyway,life has been good so far,, can wait to finish this quarter and enjoy the winter breakkk!!

also, cant wait to graduate!! :) but, i need a J-O-B people!! omg,,
time really goes so fastt,,still remember my freshman year here when things are not so complicated,, uuuu,, misses that moment !! give it back to me!! :(

oh well, if you want to ask me what im gonna do after graduation,, the answer is : HAVE NO IDEA!!
HAHAHHA
well, of course im trying to find a jobb first here,, i want to get the experience!!
after that finally go back home to indonesia!! missed a lot of moments with my fams of course, but i dont want to miss more than that,,

ok then people, its 1:50 AM in the morning,, and im going off to bed,,

hug n kisses,,

riza

complicated really

2009-05-31T23:44:00.002-04:00

hemm, it is really getting complicated right now,,
things have changed quite fast,,
one day you become best friends and one day you dont know each other.
its kind of hard to see things beyond the line,but i have tried,,
and i think i am failed,,

i dont know what to do anymore,,
should i just give up or i need to keep trying even though its hard??
i wanted things to be like the time when we know each other,
when we can just hang out and gossiping or maybe just singing like crazy,,
anything but this,,

i dont want to get out of your life for sure
but i dont see that you are trying for that.
are you trying also or maybe just me?

hope things is going to be better than now,,
coz i dont want to let u go

my wishess

2009-04-01T01:13:00.002-04:00

i wish i can make a very pretty cake
i wish i am in Paris rite now
i wish i have a bluberry muffin or banana nut muffin also works for me
i wish i can see the fireworks one more time
i wish i can speak chinese and spanish
i wish i am in hospitality major
i wish i dont need to use glasses or contact lenses to see the world
i wish i can be bird and fly through the window
i wish i can take a bubble bath tmrrow morning
i wish i can forget all the things
i wish i can forgive
and importantly,
i wish, i dont know you from the beginning,,

21 bday

2009-03-13T00:30:00.005-04:00

haduh2

maap skali yah klo blog yg sbelum nya agag2 blak blak an pmbicaraanny,,
lg stress sh sdikit
hehehehe

yh, mau crita sdikit aja ttg bday 21 gw ini
obviously, gag akan trlupkan,,
dulu, gw gag tau apa sh bedanya ultah umur 18 kek, 19 kek, 20 kek, kayaknya semua nya sama aja gt,,hehehemm
tp, u are in US baby, 21 means being legal,
so, u will be 21 once and please enjoy the nite!!

well, ultah gw yg ke 21 ini, dimulai dari surprise an dari temen2 gw,,
gw udah agag2 tau sh klo mis nya temen2 gw bakal dtg,,tp yah, ttp surprise juga,,krn mereka dtg nya skitar jem 12 30 ato jem 1 pagii,, padahal udh mau tdr lg gw!!
hehehe

after that, lanjut dengan acara makan2 di BUCCA DI BEPPO,,
haduh tmptnya sempit abis,,gag nyaman,, jd nyesel loh gw makan2 dsitu,,
tp maybe org nya juga trlalu banyak,,bingung dehhh :(

lanjut dr makan, pergilah kita semua ke bristol and sugar,,
langsung alcohol intake nya high skali,, mabok, muntah, gag enak perut, hangover paginya, dll,,,
haduh, laen kalo kalo mw mabok, jgn ampe muntah dehh!!gag enak,,

trnyata, bgini toh jadinya umur 21,, spektakuler n bikin cape,,

other than masalah duniawi,,
ada juga donk sisi2 dimana gw mnyadari umur 21 ini umur pijakan gw yg baru untuk membuka lembaran yang baru,,
semua2 yang buruk, ditaruh di paling blakang halaman, disegel *or di wrap* supaya gag bisa di buka lagi, dan bukalah lembaran halaman yang baru, wangi, bersih and gag bercoreng sdikit pun,

semua ucapan happy bday yang gw trima baik lewat sms, tilpun, facebook, kartu ucapan n kehadiran, membuat gw sadar trnyata masih banyak pihak yang care and peduli sama gw,,

other than that, usaha temen2 n keluarga gw untuk ngasih gw kado,,
gw tau ngasih n cari kado ke orang tuh gag gampang,,
mesti ngumpulin orang2 yg mau patunga, belom lagi, cari kado yang cocok untuk tuh orang, telpun2 sana sini, itung2 uang, sms, maybe FB an, ngobrol,,
haduh, usaha2 kecil yg kayk gt yang bikin ultah gw lebih brwarna,,
belum lagi kue ultah yang dibikinin lia,,
yummyy,,
gw tau bikin tuh kue gag gampang,, dimana elo harus mulai dari scratch,,coba2 dulu pertama kali,trus bagi2 ke orang.gagal.bikin lagi yang baru, brhrap lebih enak dari sebelumnya n nyatanya, seriously, it tasted really good!!

semua perhatian yang dikasih buat gw smakin mbuat gw sadar kalo gw gag sndirian ampe skr!!
maybe gw lagi down ato sedih kmren2 ini, cuman, semua jg ada masa nya,,
roda kan pasti berputar,, kadang elo ada di atas, kadang elo ada di bwh,,
tp dengan beranjak nya umur gw ke 21 ini, gw udah mulai bisa mengatasi semua nya dengan legowo. lebih menerima apa ada nya.
lebih mau enjoy my life dengan mengesampingkan hal2 yg buruk ke bagian paling blakang kepala gw.

so, rite now, i just want to enjoy my life.
smiling whenever i can
value friendship and family
and of course dont care with anything or anybody else!!

xoxo,

cheers for being 21!!!

pain killer please,,

2009-02-26T20:53:00.003-05:00

this pain is killing me seriously,,

i need someone to give me the pain killer,,
but, i dont think anybody has that kind of pain killer for me..

when I just want to give up,why you always makes me dont want to give up?
but, when i finally started to respond it, then u just will let me alone without a sound,

its hard for me, u should know,,
how u get over it so easy??

i wish i know it, so i can get over it so easy,,

maybe u are not worth it anymore,
i have no idea,
what should i do?

i need my pain killer please,,

desperately,,

life is seriously too short

2009-02-25T20:23:00.001-05:00

life's too short

life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets.
so love the people who treat u right, forget about the ones who don't.
and believe that everything happens for a reason.

if u get a chance, take it.
if it changes ur life, let it.
nobody said that it'd be easy, they just promised,
it would be worth it..

taken from my friend's notes on FB,,

journey to 2009

2009-02-23T01:02:00.003-05:00

hellow yellow,

fiuh, udah lama juga gag update blog gw yg super lama ini,,
hehehhee,,

well, gara2 wktu itu tanpa ada angin dll, law comment ini blog trakhir gw yg isinya ttg bestfriend,,
jd teringat lah gw akan blog yg udh lama gag gw buka ini *almost forget user name n passwordnya*

oh well,
dengan meninggalkan tahun 2008 yang penuh dengan kenangan manis,
dimulai lah tahun 2009 yang supposedly tahun yg bagus,, *since itu angka 9 diblakangnya,angka kbruntungan gw smnjak SMP*, oh well, trnyata tdk sbagus yg gw pikirkann,,

banyak skali kjadian yg mbuat gw kecewa dan sedih padahal baru awal tahunn,,

yah, skr ini, 2 minggu mnuju ultah gw yg ke 21,,
gw cuman brharap aja,, smoga dgn umur gw yg brtmbah nanti,
-gw bisa smakin kuat
-makin bisa dewasa
-makin bs "legowo"
-n of course, everything happens for a reason, rite??

ok deh klo bgtu,

hope u guys enjoy this short part of my life,,
hopefully i can continue this journey to be in a better path than these dayss,,

xoxo,,

riza

b.e.s.t - f.r.i.e.n.d

2008-08-12T00:42:00.004-04:00

hellow dunia,,apa kabar nih semua,,

duh,udah lama ga isi blog nih gara2 sibuk mlulu,,
pdahal pengen banget deh cerita2,,hehehe,,

yah,skarang ini gw kpengen mncurahkan rasa2 kangen sama semua sahabat2 gw yang ada di indo,,

dearest,

aimi-sahabat baek gw yang satu ini, jadi sahabat baek yang lmyan cukup akrab dimulai dari pertengkaran kelas 2 SMP,,hahha,,gw inget banget deh waktu kita berantem,tp ga tau knapa,,hahaha,,lucu juga yahh,,nih anak orangnya rame banget,,banyak joke2 yang seru yang gw suka ambil juga dari dia,,tomboy-satu kata untuk nya,,hahaha,,brubah donk mi,,masa tomboy mlulu dehh??emm,,kangen ama krusuhannya,,dan juga gosip2 bareng buat ngomongin si "daun",,haduhh,,dasar dehhhh,,

febi-sobat kental sejak SMP kelas satuu,,sekelas,trus jadi deket aja dehhh,,lengket kayak perangko,,hahaha,,anaknya pinter,,masa gag blajar tp dapet bagus terus??licik dehh,huh,,yah,tp sangat disayangkan,klo diajak ngobrol suka lemot deh orangnya,,hahahhaha,,cantikk-banyak loh yang naksir dengan keluguan mukanya dan tompel penebar pesonanya yang ada di pipi,,hehehe,,love this one

yuke-sobat naek angkot kalo dari rumah,,maenannya kenalan ama orang2 di dunia maya,,yah,boleh lah untuk nambah temen,tp coba cari yang real,,klo keluar2 giginya tnggos gimana??hahahaha,,temen gw dari SD ini bikin kangen buat maen basket breng satu tim pas SMP,,pas jaman2 nya kita sering ke JKT tanding ama skolah laen,pake baju basket,brkringat ria,dll,,duuhhhh kangennya,,belumm saat2 nya tilpunan tiap hari untuk gosip ato ngbrl2 geje,,hehehhe

egi- teman lama dari SD..jaman2 nya juga maen basket barengg,nginep di rumah temen bareng,tomboy sekali-lebih tomboy dari aimi deh, maen nya ama cowo terus,,belum lagi punya anjing si gobel yang ilang entah kmana,,pdahl sangat lah lucu diaaaa,,hehehe,,kangggeeennn maen di rumah mu!! btw,rambutmu di cat??kaget dehhh warna rambut mu brubah!!

eyi-si kribo imut,,hehehe,,udah badan nya kecil,kribo lagii,,kangen deh maenin rambut mu yang super sexy ituu,,udah kayak sponge buat mandi,,hahaha,,klo lagi di crowd,,paling gampang cariin elo ey,,hehehe,,abis tinggal liat rambut yg paling gede aja,,hehehe,,super jahat abis gw,,

peggy-cewek paling cantik deh diantara kita,,juga maybe di satu angkatan??kurang paham juga,,cantik and super putihh,,penuh godaan,,dan juga pinter,,calon dokter gitu yah peg,,

hemm,,yah segitu dulu deh sahabat2 kuwh yang paling aku kangenin!!
jangan tinggalin gw donk ke bali thsi dec!!
sedih dehhh,,

hehehe,,

NB: i dont think they know this blog exist,,hahahahha

smoochhhh

after a long weekend

2008-07-23T00:01:00.002-04:00

hellow yellow,

setelah gw menunda isi blog selama couple weeks ini,,
akhirnya sekarang gw brkesempatan juga untuk isi lagii,,hehehe,,

yah,prtma2 mau taguh janji dulu nih ke lia, "mana serabi eke??"
kedua, tagih janji untuk future ke angel mojay, "oke deh,makanan menado tak tunggu loh!!"
hihihihi,,

yah,mau crita sekilas kmana aja sih gw mnghilangg,,hehehe,,

dua minggu lalu,lupa tanggal nya sih,
yah,pokoknya gw and temen2 *micin,tika,indri,alwyn,mayo,awei,renard,ade nya renard,anton*-semoga ga ada yang terlupa deh,kita pergi ke dayton tempatnya herry,,

yah,semacam refreshing gt deh setelah sekian lama ga liburan *menghadapi summer dengan kelas2 yang mbosankan dan susah*

nyampe di dayton,malem2,widih,tempatnya herry nyaman abis yeh,,ada kamar nya 3 biji,,dilengkapi dengan wc juga 3 biji,ada ruang tamu,meja makan kayu,dapur yang super bersih dan pkarangan blakang yang cukup gede untuk plihara seekor sapi..*tapi sayang herry disuruh pelihara anjing aja gag mau,apalgi sapi coba :(

yah,di dayton kita banyak ngbrl,ketawa2,maen UNO,ke aquarium,ke greja gede nan bagus *super rame penuh distraction*, masak bareng, dan ke museum aerforce,,

yah,bgtulah skilas tentang dayton dan rumahnya herry,,

lalu minggu lalu tepatnya tanggal 18-20 Juli 2008, gw pergi ke dallas,tepatnya ke universitas arlington,,

kenapa gw ke dallas??yah waktu itu gw daftar untuk leadership gt deh,,trus dikash pilihanya mau kmana,,klo andi kan pilih ke chicago gt,tadinya sih mau ke chicago juga biar bareng,eh tapi klo dipikir2 lagi kan udh sering ke chicago,jd mau coba tmpt laen aja deh,,yh udh deh milih yang ke dallas aja,,

tp ga lama stelah milih ke dallas,waduh sdikit nyesel sih,,karena gw harus menghaburkan uang sebanyak kurang lbih 400 dollar untuk beli tiket pswat!!omigod dehhhhh,,

waktu itu,langsung,aduh males nh pergi,apa gw refund aja deh tuh tiket,,mana sendirian lg perginya,belom pas nyampe dallas nya,gmn cb caranya ke skolahannya,,

pheww,,,cape jg gw nulis nh,,hehehe,,

lanjutt,,

tp stelah bbrapa hari,ge membulatkan tekad ssebulat baso untuk pergi ke dallas apapun yg trjadi!!
hehehe,,

eh,trnyata gw ga nyesel loh!!!!

gw ksono banyak ktmu orang2 baru,trus kenal2 an *pdahal biasanya gw males bgt deh kenal2 an ama org baru ga jelas*, trus cerita2 gt,,

wah,trnyata sebagian besar yg ksono tuh orang hebat semua,,salut gw,,
gw bukan apa2 nya at all!!!!
omigod,,

oh well,,conclusion nya,gw seneng bs ksono,,bs denger smua orang crita2 ttg khidupan mreka dll,,
klo ada lagi,probably gw mau lagi shh,,well,let see,,

hehehe,,

udah ah,cape bener + ngantukk,,nanti lanjut lg deh,,
ok???

nite!!

riza

Lessons in Love, by Way of Economics

2008-07-15T11:09:00.003-04:00

Everybody’s Business
Lessons in Love, by Way of Economics
By BEN STEIN
Published: July 13, 2008
Taken from : New York Times

AS my fine professor of economics at Columbia, C. Lowell Harriss (who just celebrated his 96th birthday) used to tell us, economics is the study of the allocation of scarce goods and services. What could be scarcer or more precious than love? It is rare, hard to come by and often fragile.

My primary life study has been about love. Second comes economics, so here, in the form of a few rules, is a little amalgam of the two fields: the economics of love. (I last wrote about this subject 20 years or so ago, and it’s time to update it.)
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In general, and with rare exceptions, the returns in love situations are roughly proportional to the amount of time and devotion invested. The amount of love you get from an investment in love is correlated, if only roughly, to the amount of yourself you invest in the relationship.
If you invest caring, patience and unselfishness, you get those things back. (This assumes, of course, that you are having a relationship with someone who loves you, and not a one-sided love affair with someone who isn’t interested.)
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High-quality bonds consistently yield more return than junk, and so it is with high-quality love. As for the returns on bonds, I know that my comment will come as a surprise to people who have been brainwashed into thinking that junk bonds are free money. They aren’t. The data from the maven of bond research, W. Braddock Hickman, shows that junk debt outperforms high quality only in rare situations, because of the default risk.
In love, the data is even clearer. Stay with high-quality human beings. And once you find that you are in a junk relationship, sell immediately.~bener abiss!! Junk situations can look appealing and seductive, but junk is junk. Be wary of it unless you control the market.
(Or, as I like to tell college students, the absolutely surest way to ruin your life is to have a relationship with someone with many serious problems, and to think that you can change this person.)
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Research pays off. The most appealing and seductive (that word again) exterior can hide the most danger and chance of loss. For most of us, diversification in love, at least beyond a very small number, is impossible, so it’s necessary to do a lot of research on the choice you make.~harus and wajib dilakuin!! It is a rare man or woman who can resist the outward and the surface. But exteriors can hide far too much.
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In every long-term romantic situation, returns are greater when there is a monopoly.~monopoly donkk!! If you have to share your love with others, if you have to compete even after a brief while with others, forget the whole thing. You want to have monopoly bonds with your long-term lover. At least most situations work out better this way. ( I am too old to consider short-term romantic events. Those were my life when Lyndon Johnson and Richard Nixon were in the White House.)
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The returns on your investment should at least equal the cost of the investment. If you are getting less back than you put in over a considerable period of time, back off.
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Long-term investment pays off. The impatient day player will fare poorly without inside information or market-controlling power. He or she will have a few good days but years of agony in the world of love.
To coin a phrase: Fall in love in haste, repent at leisure.
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Realistic expectations are everything. If you have unrealistic expectations, they will rarely be met. If you think that you can go from nowhere to having someone wonderful in love with you, you are probably wrong.
You need expectations that match reality before you can make some progress. ~jangan pikir yang terlalu tinggi,nanti klo jatuh,sakit lohh!!There may be exceptions, but they are rare.
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When you have a winner, stick with your winner. Whether in love or in the stock market, winners are to be prized.
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Have a dog or many dogs or cats in your life. These are your anchors to windward and your unfailing source of love.
Ben Franklin summed it up well. In times of stress, the three best things to have are an old dog, an old wife and ready money. How right he was.
THERE is more that could be said about the economics of love, but these thoughts may divert you while you are thinking about your future.
And let me close with another thought. I am far from glib about the economy. It has a lot of pitfalls facing it. As workers and investors, we know that many dangers lurk in our paths.
But so far, these things have always worked themselves out and this one will, too. In the meantime, they say that falling in love is wonderful, and that the best is falling in love with what you have.
Ben Stein is a lawyer, writer, actor and economist. E-mail: ebiz@nytimes.com

overall:
menurut gw,artikel ini bagus abis,,
hehehehe,,
tolong dibaca and diresapii!!
hihihihi,,

laparrr

2008-07-10T11:04:00.002-04:00

woooww..

laper laper laper..
hahaha,,

td abis liat2 blog nya yunikee,,
isinya makanan semua,,parahh!!

gw mana laper,ga ada makanan,becek dehhh,, *saliva gw kmana2*

oh iy,update aja nh,,
tuh gambar gretel klinci gw yg super imut udh gw singkirkan untuk smntara,,
jadi,kalian2 ga usah panik deh klo gambarnya kgedean,, *pdhal mnurut gw super lucu lohhh!!manis gitu kayak yg punya*

kedua,kalian udah bisa comment dehhh,,
udah gw ganti setting nya,,
jd comment yg banyak deh tuh!!

hahahha,,

hemm,,mau lab bio nh skarangg,,cuman malas,,abis bosen lab mlulu,,untung minggu depan kelar deh first term nya!!
yes yes yes!!

kembali ke soal makanan,,gw kpengen serabi nihh!! *winda,u tau serabi gag??*

oh well,ada yang mau buatinn??hihihiihihi

2008-07-10T00:10:00.000-04:00

oh well,,
hari ini berlalu dengan cepet juga yahhh,,

hihihi

btw, hari ini gw bolos dua kelas lohhh,,parahhh!!
tp dua2 nya baru pertama kali kok,,jd ga pa pa donk sekali2,,hihihihihi,,

hemm,,setelah gw liat2 nih blog,,lucu juga yah,,
itu muka nya si gretel gede abiss,,
bener banget dehh,,pdahal gw pasanganya mw kecil gt,,tp kok jd gede abis??
trus kedua,kalian2 yang ga punya google account,malah ga bs kasih komet,,
jadi susah juga dehhh,,

oh well,brhubung gw gaptek nh,, *maklum bukan major CSE*,
yh boleh deh ditunggu dulu perbaikannya,,okeh2??

adios

2008-07-09T00:23:00.000-04:00

hellooooo yellooww...

this is my first blog ever,,
well,,sblumnnya punya sih blog,,tp itu untuk ramean gt ama temen2 gw,,hihihihi,,

cuman,brhubung smw orang bilang,,
well,cobain aja untuk bikin blog,,wah pnasaran juga nh gmn rasanya punya blog sndiri yang bs "dipamerin" ke smw orang,,hahahhaha,,

ancur emang gw,,

well,sekarang jem 12.24 malem, columbus time, and sleeping time,,hihihi,,
udah 2 hari berturut2 nh gw tdr ga beer gara2 ujian yang mnegangkan,,

yah,bsk tinggal quiz accounting *blom balajr*
jd,sekarang tdr dulu dehhh,,ini coba2 doank kok,,

sorry udah menghabiskan wktu anda!!hhahaha,,

thanks udah baca,,
hihihihihi

caw dulu dehhh